Black in classic

I was recently watching a clip from Jerry Springer where a young girl cried this man a river about his infidelities and how she stuck by him. This man stood in her face unmoved by it all.  But, that didn’t shock me.  I was most surprised by the comments that women made reacting to the video. Most of the women said that they have felt or are feeling that same way. Listen, I was SHOCKED. I sometimes sit and wonder how someone can be so heartbroken over a person that they KNEW wasn’t any good. It has puzzled me for years because I couldn’t find the logic in it. I know not everyone thinks logically and rationally, like myself. Some people think based off of their emotions. So that may be the difference. BECAUSE logically speaking, there’s no way you can believe that a man showing you he isn’t worth nothing is WORTH anything. Like, 0+0 will always equal 0.  So I came up with my own conclusion and realize that many women fall in love out loneliness and potential. Being lonely is not the pass go moment to ignore the warning labels and bank on that $200 dollars of potential. Potential will ruin you each and every time. It hurts because it is imaginary. It’s a fantasy that you created to make yourself feel good about the bs that you are settling for.  We’ve all heard it before and seen it before. It’s not uncommon as I believe it should be. I cannot fathom loving someone who is showing me that they are awful. Where is the logic in that? AND you cannot be mad at anyone but YOURSELF! No one sold you this dream, you created a fantasy. These men are who they are and it’s up to you to believe them. I couldn’t count on my hands or yours the amount of times I’ve heard women bash a man that never lied to them about who they were. Like in this Jerry Springer clip, that man was very clear that he wasn’t about anything and she STILL believed in his potential. F. potential. Believe what is in front of you. Believe his actions. Don’t believe the fairy tale stories that you have made yourself to believe. It isn’t that. How can you believe that he is any different than what he is showing you?