Black in classic

Hov said, “How you gon’ upgrade me? What’s higher than number one?” 

What’s more palatable confidence or arrogance? All women should be a mixture of both. Dictonary.com defines arrogant as having or revealing an exaggerated sense of one’s own importance or abilities. I think this is a fair description of the adjective, BUT I also believe that it is necessary. Be arrogant with a dash of humble. Everyone’s confidence should border on arrogance or being conceited. Most times, if not all of the time, it’s okay to acknowledge that you are indeed the shit. You are all that and a bag of chips. For many of us, who have that kinda confidence it can be off-putting to others and that’s FINE! It really ain’t for everybody. Having an abundance of confidence is for women who simply don’t take no shit. Many times women start to settle in all facets of life. That kind of settling will take a toll on you. It’s so hard to be this kind of confident when you are letting things run you down.

It starts with having that exaggerated sense of one’s self. Look yourself in the mirror and acknowledge that you are indeed THE ONE. Start with saying it because once you say it you can believe it; then eventually, you will be able to know it. I know I am the ONE and there is NONE like me. I don’t shy away from that. I don’t let anyone make me feel less than number ONE. I’m arrogant in that way. My arrogance won’t allow any man or woman to mistreat me. You are only allowed to treat me like I am the ONE and if not… You have got to go. It’s just that simple. It has nothing to do with appearance, but everything to do with understanding your worth as a human being. As an entity in this universe, love yourself too much so everyone has to rise to that standard.