The men we attract will oftentimes say a lot about us. However, who we entertain says so much more. I’m often shocked by the men that women choose to entertain. I think that the men you interact with should be a reflection of you or doing better than you. A man who is doing less than me in life can do NOTHING for me. I don’t even have time for a conversation with a man who is not close to where I am in life. I know that sounds harsh but, you are what you attract. You are exactly what you entertain. I know my worth and I won’t mingle with someone who simply just doesn’t measure up.  I cannot win with a loser. I find that women often get super lonely and just accept the bare minimum to fulfil a void. But, I’d like to let you know that void you feel cannot be filled by anyone other than you. Let that sink in.

Men will prey on the women who radiate desperation. Don’t be that woman. Entertaining a clown makes you a clown too. Be a true woman who understands the power she possesses and leaves theses fools where they are. If you think that the men you are entertaining aren’t a true representation of yourself then dump them. Don’t settle for garbage. Women love the “men ain’t shit” line and in all honesty ladies, sometimes it’s just the men you willingly entertain.

Stop expecting a CZ to be a DIAMOND.