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Use this time to learn how to take care of yourself. I’ve noticed that many women are becoming reliant on someone else taking care of them. Be able to take care of yourself in all aspects. There will come a time where you will need to take care of you. If you give that responsibility to everyone else, you will be in for a rude awakening when things get really real. AND please don’t misinterpret what I am saying. OF COURSE, we all need help from others. It takes a village, BUT you should always be able to carry your own weight. Women fall victim to leaving one dependent relationship and jumping head first into another one. Whether it be moving right out of your parents’ home and into a man’s home or jumping in and out of multiple romantic relationships. It will have very debilitating results. Be able to maintain a household on your own before you rely on a man. At any time, that rug can be pulled from underneath you. The person you are dependent on can pass away or leave you. Do not willingly put yourself in a position that leaves you unable to do for yourself. I am able to be submissive and let a man be a man. BUT, at the end of the day, I can take good care of myself. Again, please do not misinterpret me. The “I can do all bad by myself” women are quite strange to me. No one should do all bad by themselves. We all innately need companionship. That should really go without saying. So, let’s start to take care of ourselves as women. Let’s pay bills, get oil changes, fill our windshield wiper fluid and fix small plumbing issues. Be able to stand on all ten toes as a grown woman who can do for herself. Co-dependency can start out as something that seems relatively good, but giving up that kind of power is a bad idea. At the end of the day, you should be confident enough to know that if all else fails, you can take care of you!