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A lot of women believe that they’re the perfect wife, BUT are you really? Many of you cannot handle being alone with just yourself. It is very evident in how fast you leave one situation and wind up in another. Honestly, some of you are never out of a situation completely. The hard truth is that you have yet to fall in love with yourself, so you are seeking someone to fill a void. No one has that much in their cup where it allows them to endlessly pour into you.

Before you scream, YES IM A CATCH, make sure that you actually love yourself. Marry into the idea of being the best version of yourself. If you cannot handle being alone and truly understanding that you are enough, then it is hard to consider you “wifey material”. A marriage will not complete you. You must complete yourself. Be able to know just what you need to do, OUTSIDE OF A RELATIONSHIP, to pour into yourself. Make sure that you know how to make yourself happy. You will need an identity apart from being a wife. Being a wife should not define you. You are an individual who deserves enough respect to be unique and stand on your own.

I don’t write this to be hard on anyone and their beliefs. I write this to challenge you to be more than just someone’s wife. Be your own wildest dream. Don’t sell yourself short. Fall in love with yourself and enjoy her to the fullest capacity. A man will never love you as much as you love yourself. Do not ever forget that.