Black in classic

Many women will mess with a man based off their status, money, or influence to gain access to a life that they do not have. This small group of women have oversaturated the market and caused a little bit of confusion. With songs by the likes of Megan the Stallion, Cardi B, and the City Girls, it is hard to tell what women really want. There is this misconception that all women want to use men for the things I named above. The difference between a clout chaser and a woman with high standards is the simple fact that she can do for herself. Women that come with their own are not looking for a man that has nothing to contribute. She in turn does not want a man that she cannot add value too. So, if that is understood then it ain’t trickin if you got it. That is why it is important to find a significant other that understands what it means to pour into you and do what it takes to make you happy. No matter how small or how grandiose. There are a lot of men that will not understand this concept and that is okay. They are not the man you want to be involved with, anyway. The thing about pop culture right now is that not all women are walking away understanding the message. It is as if most women believe that they should be handed things for merely being attractive. Now, that may work for a while, but we will later discuss that beauty fades. Also, never give the man the option to pull the rug from underneath you. A woman’s livelihood should never be dependent on a man’s wallet. The best thing a woman could be for herself is her own superhero. Your significant other should ADD to you, not TAKE away. If he is not willing to provide, protect, and support you unconditionally, I think you should consider trading him in, sis. As I mentioned, the market is oversaturated, and men feel like they are being used and taken advantage of. Of course, we know that not to be the WHOLE truth. The truth is, it ain’t trickin if you got it. Men take care of the woman that they love and wish to pursue seriously. It gives a certain kind of man a great deal of satisfaction that his woman is happy and stress free. That kind of man is never worried about being called a trick because he knows what those other men don’t 😉