Black in classic

Hey Sis! You read that right. What do you bring to the table? That’s the question on every man’s mind in 2021. What does a woman bring to the table? Now, if you are in any way, shape, or form familiar with BIC, then you already know I hate questions like this or any form of it. Why? Because, women are the table, the house, and the world. However, many of us have forgotten who and what we are. Men are starting to realize that they indeed can be treated like the prize. Being that they feel as though they are the gold trophy, they want to know what we offer. It’s a shame, but it is true. The biggest shame of them all, is that women refuse to change their behavior to make things different. Men will only rise to the standard that you have set. If you treat yourself like the runner up, then he will fall right into first place AND expect to be treated as such. Sis, that is just straight facts.

Lately, woman have stopped honoring themselves and each other. There is absolutely no honor amongst women. We do as we please and have completely disregarded our true essence. Many of us, will try to answer the question and that is appalling. When asked that question, I challenge you to ask the man, “What makes you a man? Who taught you that?” I bet he cannot answer it or it will be really vague and cliche. Just as your answer would be. No one knows anymore. We are all scrambling to make a family out of our own dysfunction. What I do know is that we cannot continue on this way. Women have to start to taking back their control and their power.

You bring absolutely nothing to the table, but the presence of a good woman.

If he can’t respect that, then his whole perspective is wack.