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What does it mean to be happily single? Does it mean that you don’t want to be in a relationship? Most likely not. Happily Single is understanding that whether you are with a partner or not, being happy will remain a constant. Being happily single is committing to your own happiness and being the driving force for it. Your own happiness should not rely on your relationship status. No one will be in your life forever. You have to know how to make yourself happy. Being happily single is not some nonsensical self talk to make yourself feel better. It is not a club for lonely women. It’s a state of mind and/or lifestyle choice for women that understand their worth. It is taking time to fall in love with yourself again, or maybe for the first time. I choose to be happily single and still know that I am open to love.

There may be a misconception that being happily single means that you don’t want love. That is the furthest thing from the truth. The truth is that you are your most important priority. You are happily focusing on your goals, your dreams, your own life. (period!) Happily single is just being happy. Don’t live in a constant state of being unhappy. This is where you are constantly waiting for the “man” to sweep you off your feet and make your life better. Learn to know exactly what it takes to make yourself happy. Being so unhappy just creates a negative environment for you to live in. Never give someone so much power that just their presence can affect the mood you are in. That kind of power will cause your demise in the end. If you don’t gain anything for everything that I have said, just keep with you this message ” I am happy for me.”